Just listen...

Sometimes I dun understand, in fact, most of the time I dun...
Why issit that u have been through it, yet u can't understand from my point of view ?
Pple have double standards and we are forgetful, we tend to wallow in self-misery, but belittle other pple's problems when they are in our shoes. I must confessed, I am guilty of it too.

Sometimes pple dun need advice, neither approval nor console, the last thing they need, is to have you breathing down their throat.
On the other hand, some treats you as non-existent. Pple with problems are deemed an irritant. They leave you alone, thinking you are making a mountain out of a molehill.

Either way is saddening, but i think being ignored, outcasted and alone is more hurtful and depressing. I don't believe any sad pple can help themselves, I really don't. When pple walk out of darkness, it's only with strength frm their surroundings. You may not see the source youself, you may conclude that you have survived it alone, but if you do think carefully, you actually did it with pple ard you. These pple ain't just anybody, these are pple you can relate to. When you know that you ain't the only one suffering, you are relieved you are not alone. When you know that others have the same fate as you, you gather strength to walk through the road.

When you can't find anybody, that's when the problem comes. You have no one in the same boat as you, you need help from someone. But when even someone dismiss you, you are truly done. That's why pple commit suicide, they are convinced that there's no one.

When pple are sad, it's a sign for attention. When pple are sad, they are actually a patient. That why love is needed in this world, love comes for a reason. When pple say spread the love, it's not just an empty word. Sadness is the cause for love, love is the only medicine. So the next time you see sad pple, dun be a preacher, dun be irritated. Listen to them with a loving heart, just listen...