some pondering qns...

Just some qns at the back of my head, triggered by some pple, some strangers, some random moments...

What kind of a fren are u if u r always too obsessed in your microscopic world?
What kind of a fren are u if u only wallow in ur prob
yet completely oblivious to others?
What kind of a fren are u if ur insensitivy is starkly hurting & annoying?

Nobody is perfect
and as a fren,
I can only hope to look beyond their flaws and see their goodness.

What kind of a person are u if u think ur predicament is the worst of the worst
and nobody can understand u?
What kind of a person are u if u blame others when u feel a lack of concern?
What kind of a person are u if judge others with your own justifications?

I pray that u'll open ur heart and see beyond the horizons.

Why do u love me?
(In fact, why do u love anybody?)

"she's pretty"
I say u r superficial.

"she makes me happy"
I dun live to carry the the burden of anyone's happiness.
Happiness is a personal responsibility & I say u r ur own source of happiness.

"she's a nice person"
That's relative.

"she's smart, sporty, friendly...."
Go marry a checklist.

What's the perfect ans?
There's no perfect ans.
A perfect ans is an absurb ans. A perfect ans is a flatter. Sometimes, it's rubbish.

For me...
I love u cuz u r happy.